Women's Infidelity book

Although this book offers not a single case where an adulterous wife returned to husband unreservedly or sincerely, she is maverick... Remarkable, straight forward well researched and offers a valid reason for the enforcers for rotating polyandry. There are biochemical nuerological enforcers that leand themselves to the therory that sex is the biggest adiction and among most difficult to treat. Case studies do bear out that women confuse love for infactuation more broadly than men. It defies the long held cultural notion that women are more naturally monogomous than men. It is important to note here the important of the stimulant pheylethyamine naturally produced in the body by sexual attraction. It is also equally paramount to consider the amount of feelings of attachment when in an affair. Oxytocin is another brain chemical to consider it is what we women produce when nursing a baby, for instance. It is the same as a seditive or narcotic. Truly you cannot make good decisions when under this effect of this "drug". Yes. I know I have been there, only to find out trhat we eventually repeat our mistakes. I know sounds so weird to say that women rarely make sound or good judgements in this senario and it is always our children that pay a high cost for infidelity. Always. I have friends that remain married and have had several affairs and I know others that are part of the poly amory community due to their lack to remain faithful. I am sorry to sound morose about this. All I can say, if there is anyway to stay faithful please do so. I know two marriages that recovered from infidelity sucessfully. They both told me they now have a stronger bond that ever before. However, you need two or more years of sexual abstinance to get a lucid decision... to see the relationship as it truly is. Well this is not advice here. It is what I have seen and observed for life and from what other folks have shared with me. Wishing you the very best in your journeys here. Shalom.

YES I have read it ... and believe me she is truthfulI have told my hubby the truth and we shall see where it goes from here.My italian lover does not care - and I do not either.  So I am accountable only for me and my hubby.I sure hope I can find the thread to unthread the events of the past 23 years in marriage. Back to what made me marry him in the first place.But we shall see, we shall see

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