Divorcing an Agreesive Narcisst (diagnosed by court appointed forensic investigotor)

I live in Ventura County ( California). I have been legally separated since 06/18/07. My STBX has had 6 lawyers each one being a bigger jerk. Lawyers 1-5 quit, and no. 6 is harassing and mean. My STBX has proven to the Judge that he is not a uncredible person. Trying to divorce an Aggressive Narcissist is a nightmare in the family court system. I was ordered to pay him temp support 10/07 - Jan 08 - he told court he was uneducated & disabled. Then I found out that he was working the entire time, making more than I and collecting Support from me. The court stopped the support payments then he was fired from his employer for lying, cheating and falsifying his skills and knowledge. Then he went back to court and they gave him more support. He then was collecting 1800 per mo for support, 1800 per mo on our home that was in foreclosure that he was renting out plus unemployment of 1800. He is also getting a house free of rent from the local mormon church plus food from their food bank. I am not sure how to get this divorce over. He wont end it. He just continues to harass, stalk and annoy me. I don't have a lawyer - out of funds after almost 2 years of trying to get divorced with a lawyer and paying support plus medical to my STBX.

by dawnmachele 16 Posts
Posted on 3/27/2009 6:16 PM

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I have already proven that he is using the system. But it has not seem to have gotten me divorced. I got to pay him more spousal support. I proved to the court that he was untrust worthy and lied to the court. The court ended me paying him support, told him he had to pay me back child and spousal support and child/spousal support moving forward. In addition he had to pay my lawyer fees and Private Investigator fees totalling 60k. He has yet to pay me. He then got fired and the court gave him more support. He continues not to work. I even have to pay his medical/dental & vision. He is an Aggressive Narcissist to the fullest! No lawyer will take this on. Too much work. It was costing me 3 to 5k per month just via email/phone calls between lawyers and his narcissistic games. I wish I could go back to court and ask the judge to end this divorce. I wish I could get the judge to stop the temp spousal support and medical. STBX is never going to let his free ride end. The courts or his attorney does not help. All 6 of his attorneys have helped him keep his cake and eat it too.

by dawnmachele 16 Posts
Posted on 3/29/2009 11:05 PM

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Wow! He's a mooch and a con artist. And I bet you feel that he was the worst mistake of your life. Anyway, most attorney's have the free consultation for the first time. I would utulize some of these free consultations with a couple of the lawyers and find a way to unload your dead weight. He is of course drawing it out! He doesn't have any worries while still married to you, and he will not give that up without a fight. You need to somehow prove that he is using the system and you.

by Momma2 33 Posts
Posted on 3/28/2009 1:36 AM

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