In that you aren't working and she is - apply for legal aid at the court house and file for temporary spousal support. (unless you can afford the retainer for an attorney, which all things considered would be better - even if you put it on a credit card) Unless she has a court order giving her exclusive use of the marital home, you have a legal right to be there. Move back in and stay planted until she helps you with other arrangments or a judge makes you leave. If the two of you owned a home together, you are entitled to half of the equity. As far as the car, if you can prove that you paid for the upkeep and the maintenance of one of the vehicles and she up and sold it out from under you (regardless of who's name is on it) to "screw you over" - you can, legally, be entitled to an amount of money equal to what the value of the car is.
You live in basically, a no fault divorce state - her infidelity isn't a factor, so there is nothing you can do about it. I'm sorry for your situation but as far as her flaunting, it would probably be best if you found a different school.Do you have anyone anywhere else you could go live with for a while? Friend, family? Now is not the time to be embarassed about asking for help (housing and money) from anyone and everyone you know - you have to be able to fight for what you are legally entitled to. Stat interiewng attorneys, see if anyone will work with you on the retainer, or if you can't afford it, like I said, go to legal aid and apply.
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