I don't know where to start?

I have asked my husband for years to join me in Marriage counseling, for some reason he tells me he will but when it comes time to go he refuses. To me that’s a sign he just simply doesn’t care, I try and talk to him and I get frustrated when he gives me the cold shoulder so it turns into a huge fight and disaster. Things have not been the same for us for Quit some time now. I don't know what else to do, the comunication is gone and so is the Intimacy. All we do is fight and blame each other for all the mistakes we have made in our marriage, But I still love him, he was my first love.

Why is counseling out of the picture? It is a shame that you two are throwing away 14 years together for no real reason. Do you still love him? I would do what you can to get him to attend counseling before you split. You should try and get out and make friends in Las Vegas. Are you working? I am curious if you are throwing in the towel without even trying to make your marriage in Las Vegas. Try and do some things for yourself, like lunches with girlfriends.