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seperation

im in iraq right now and a week ago my wife and i were doing just fine. now a week ago she tells me she wants to divorce me and start new. she says that it is not stressful and i just dont understand why she wants to start all over again. we have been together for almost 4 years.

by brandon   4 Posts 
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I would tell her to give your relationship a little more time. I am glad you will be home soon and able to spend time with your family. Let her know how much you love her and how much you have changed in regards to the fighting. Make her realize she is making a mistake when she sees you. Hang in there and keep us posted.
by Bea4   406 Posts
Posted on 1/8/2008 8:30 PM
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try and see if she will go to counseling while you are home - and good luck!
by oct15   175 Posts
Posted on 1/8/2008 4:57 PM
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i dont know really. she said that she is cunfuesd and dosent know what she wants. i know we fight but most relationships do. i have been trying to be better at communicating with her and talking with her but i guess nothing is working. she said she wants to be single and get her own place to live have her own job and raise our son. but she keeps wanting me to call her and talk with her. she is starting to mess with my head. i go home in about 5 days for 18 days and i dont know how things are gonna go.
by brandon   4 Posts
Posted on 1/8/2008 1:30 PM
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this is such a terrible time to tell you this. what happened in such a short time?
by dylan   61 Posts
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