The man can't even lie well.

I wonder how I married this man some 28 years ago.  His calls to the OW stopped showing up on our cell bills and I just figured they were emailing or texting.  Tonight I saw his cell on the kitchen counter -- then walked into the den and there is another cell charging on the floor.  I said "So you have another cell phone?" He said "NO" - then I said "So why is there one charging on the floor, and who is paying for it."  It is always so nice to surprise him and catch  him in lies because he simply can't think of an answer.  After waiting about four minutes he says "a friend" gave it to him to use for business.  I said  "Yeah I believe that."  Then he tells me that it's so that they can talk privately.  I asked who is paying for it ---- no answer.  He says it's from his friend NED -- let me say that he and NED work for the same company.  I just can't get by this deceit.  I know he's been cashing freelance checks and going out a lot.  He keeps bringing home things he's bought and there's no way he didn't pay cash.  Yet we are on a budget set by the Lawyers and he goes way over that each week with what is showing up here.  I just want to wring his neck.  How can people be so evil -- he acts like he's some saint to everyone and yet he is so dirty and underhanded.  I know he just thinks he'll wear me down until I walk away with nothing.  He makes four times what I do and doesn't think I deserve anything.  I think I need to get a hold of my counselor tomorrow or I may have a nervous breakdown.  We are supposedly doing a collaborative divorce where things are open and honest.  My attorney proceeds as if he is telling the truth to keep things in "the spirit of collaboration" which makes this all a farce.  I just don't know what to do anymore.  This has been dragging out over 14 months and $25 thousand dollars.  God I need some help from someone.  I feel at the end of what I can take.