Should i let the ex change visitation skeds?

I also think it depends on the situation.  My ex and I have a weird situation, I am finding out that we both agree on.  He sees our 13 yr old every day after school and every other weekend, our 1 year old twice a week and every other weekend.  Although the days he picks up our 1 year old are starting are going to increase in March were he gets him 3 days a week.  (We are trying to work him up to 5 days a week like his sister.)  We live 15 minutes from each other so it works out.  He brings them home every afternoon at the same time and calls if he is going to be late.  About the only thing we agreed on is the kids.

What's best for the kids?  Why does he want the change?  These are the 2 questions I'd be asking.  The third is, "If I were in his shoes asking for a change, what would I want my answer to be to me?"  Compassion and love should be key here.  The focus has got to be on what is in the best interest of the kids.  Only you can know that.

So much depends on your situation. Are the kids in school, do you both live in the same area where that won't be disrupted, if not in school will a later change be difficult on them when they are...