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So, my wife and I are sort of on talking terms at this point however she is still very hurt from everything. I have made it a point to give her all the space she needs, ie. not really contacting her and letting her initiate communcation. The problem today is that I woke up missing her like crazy! I want to tell her that, but I dont want her to feel like Im just saying it. Should I just leave it or would it be a good idea to send her a text or something?

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The limited information that you have provided does not give this community much to go on in order to come up with some kind of feedback that can be useful. With this in mind you have the following options based on what you have stated in your post: 1) Since she is hurt and you have given her space - I would communicate that you are sorry and that you are available for her to contact you when she feels ready. 2) The fact that you miss her indicates that you have feelings for her; although, it is most likely that you had feelings for her prior to the act that hurt her... So, deal with the fact that your missing her may be a part of the "time" you need to serve for doing the crime. 3) Be honest with your self and with her when the opportunity does come up that you will be able to communicate; and, fully realize that you will need to do a good amount of listening along with being sensitive to what her concerns are as you attempt any kind of reconcilation. Keep the group posted so that we may better help your set of circumstances.
by bp   972 Posts
Posted on 1/10/2008 7:03 PM
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Did you cheat on her
by neishdoll   1 Post
Posted on 1/9/2008 11:14 PM
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What happened to make her be so hurt. Are you legally seperated. Give more information
by Barkley   910 Posts
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i think i need more information here. are you the one wanting the divorce or is she?
by Mary   179 Posts
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