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And the WINNER is...

Wouldn't it be nice... if you could tell your story, vote for the worse Spouse... for the Year 2008, and claim you prize! The bad Spouse would get a letter of accomplishment in the mail, some attention that would scare most away, and you would get a PRIZE.

What kind of Prize would you want?

If I was to win... I would like a weekend away from the House...Lots of Pampering.. at a Spa, a massage, facial, A visit to the Salon for a Pedicure, Hair Color, Hair Cut, Wax, Nails done, and then off, not to Goodwill Store... but to a Real Store to buy a pair of Blue Jeans! ...new sexy panties, bras and fuzzy warm socks. Next, I would run to the nearest Makeup counter...for a Makeover and all new makeup with those fancy moisturizers and firming reviver, that now come in the foundations that hide your true age from all that stress. Yep, when you are all said and done..you could look a few years younger, from all the stress,that you have had to deal with...and the only other thing that comes to mind is.. I would like a BIG bottle of one of the Perfumes... that I see in the Magazines..ya know the ones you open and smell... wishing you could have. Nothing like Smelling,feeling,and looking Good... Because you can!!


I am finding ways to think positive and not so much about the what if's. If you are looking for ways to re-direct your current thoughts, try this.


 

I am a dreamer and I didn't win this Dream..but I wanted to get some input from others...If you were the Winner...What would you want as the PRIZE??  A new Spouse? A Pair of Slippers?    Enjoy and Have Fun!

by PepsiQueen   5 Posts 
Posted on 1/11/2009 6:47 PM
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to have my dream back.

about 2 months into my mouring of the loss of my marriage I told one of the girls at work that I didnt miss HIM at all.  I just missed the dream.  What I THOUGHT the relationship should have been like.
She looked me in the eye and said "you will have that dream with someone who deserves it eventually"

I want the man who doesnt just say I love you because its what he thinks he has to say.  I want the man who says I love you and can list a million little reasons,  The man who can accept my flaws and still respect me for the woman I am.

(I had all those material things - I had the vacations, I bought those bottles of perfume... they are just things and they temporarily make you feel better but arent worth the sacrifices)

by mumof3kidz   37 Posts
Posted on 1/16/2009 4:51 AM
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A one way ticket for my ex wife to timbucktu thats what i want
by wayne75   25 Posts
Posted on 1/15/2009 6:19 PM
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My stbx always wanted to go to Ireland, so I would like a trip to Ireland for me and my Daughter.  Ha!
by datme   105 Posts
Posted on 1/15/2009 3:23 PM
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All expense paid vacation with the kids.  Disney, or Hawaii, or maybe a cruise...  oh yeah, then another cruise with Angie and our 360 friends ;)  but first a trip with my kids.

I feel like I've missed so much in the short time I've been away from them.
by Brian60   325 Posts
Posted on 1/12/2009 9:45 AM
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Well, now!   I would love the prize you mentioned!  I would add a allover massage (especially my hands and feet...I know it sounds weird, but it feels sooooo good!)

I would also like to win enough money to book an entire cruise ship for all of my friends on d360----how's that for a 'I'm getting divorced' Party!

Then I would like to win a date with George Clooney....just 'cus he's yummy!
by angielou   1565 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 11:11 PM
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I could not think of any kind of prize that I would like because mine was the worst spouse.  I would not be able to accept the prize since I would be ashamed that I had been with the winner (well I guess the biggest looser). Well, I might be able to accept a clock that could go back in time.
by 123   1906 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 11:05 PM
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PQ this is great.

Ok, no ill will here to their mother, but I would love to have my kids all to myself with no strings attached.  I would just love to be the dad I have become 100% of the time again.
by boxerjo   69 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 10:50 PM
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A life that has room in it for family and friends.  A self watering, self mowing lawn and flower beds that throw the trash back at the the throwee.
by Jamesalone   2778 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 10:34 PM
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Yeah I'd have to say a home of my own that I own outright- no mortgages on it or anything!!  And can they make part of the prize be - my ex falling off the ends of the earth never to be heard from again?!!  That would be the ultimate prize right there!! :)  I know - just dreaming!! :)  A girl can dream can't she?!!! :)
by freedom   1011 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 8:47 PM
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The ability to buy my ex's half of our farm so it wouldn't have to be sold. While I'm dreaming I will dream big. For the economy to right itself and the stock market to come back so we can all afford to retire.
by trisha9054   4967 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 7:14 PM
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I am an impossible dreamer, but here goes!

I would want my prize to be, a home of my very own! One that has no haunting memories, room enough to for all the good ones yet to come! A special room for my dad, made to order just for him. A dungeon for the dragon lady (LMAO) hey it's my dream! Big enough to hold my family all at once, when the kids come to visit, a home with a big yard, lots of trees and grass...
by kdb   3175 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 7:11 PM
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I could use my standard answer- "A million dollars and a vacation home in Hawai'i", but that's not right.  I would like enough money to sustain me until I get my degree, perhaps my masters.
by Dactyl   2607 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 7:08 PM
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A loyal, loving, caring wife who respects me.  That's all I ever wanted.
by curious123   979 Posts
Posted on 1/11/2009 6:52 PM
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