just to talk

Have you expressed in words how you feel and have been feeling towards your significant other up to this point? Be honest with yourself ,because after you do this you could set in motion something that does not need to happen. Please take some time and look at the situation from the outside. Is he abusive? does he contribute to the relationship? have you gone to counseling? My wife actually did the same thing to me. Without warning or even an ultimatum for me to change or else she told me that she did not love me anymore and then a few days of me begging her to stay and try and work it out, she left. Bad part about it is in my state, you have to both agree to seperate and file. If not the leaver can be accused of desertion and abandonment. I felt that it was more to my wifes story and hired a private detective. My wife was having an affair with another man and even took the guy down to our Timeshare and spent the weekend. That is considered adultery in my state since we are not technically seperated or divorced. Know the laws in your state before you make a move that could cost you like its about to cost my wife.