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He told the kids he was having me put in jail for stealing "HIS" money

While we were still living together, I was completely in charge of all finances.  I tried to get him involved many times to no avail.  Now that we are seperated he is freaking out about liquidated investments that were used to pay bills etc.  He calls me threatening that he has an open investigation with his sisters friend who is a police officer.  That the district attorney is picking up his case of me spending joint money out of joint accounts.  I call the police department and they tell me there is nothing in the system regarding me or STBX, that he is probably just trying to scare me.  So he comes and takes the kids for his weekend, they call me crying, begging for me to come get them.  They call me again at 830 last night, tell me they are now only allowed to call me for a few minutes once a day.  Then they tell me that "Daddy said you are going to jail because you stole his money".  This is not the first time he has said the most inapropriate things to them.  He has done so many things it would ake until tomorrow to type it all So now he has my kids 4 hours away dirtbiking for the weekend and he tells them to quick calling me and not to worry because he is having me thrown in jail. he does not care at all about the feelings or emotions of my girls, he only cares about himself.  I am so freaking mad I can barely think one sentence at a time

by HJ   3 Posts 
Posted on 11/29/2008 4:23 PM
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Those poor kids!  Doesn't he realize he is hurting them so badly, scaring them about their mother.  He is selfish and stupid.  Please get these kids into counseling and reassure them that they never have to worry about mommy going anywhere.

he's a dick..
by 5babemom   286 Posts
Posted on 11/30/2008 6:12 AM
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Are we married to the same man, not only did my husband threating me he went down and tried to have me locked up for paying bills with his money.  Of course the court commissioner had a hay day with him, then when that didn't work he tried to have me arrested for telephone harrassement which he was the one calling me and texting me...  He has given up because he had to have hard ass evidence to have me locked up for the charges he was crying about, poor victim.  He had the affair, he had the mental break down, he did it all, and now wants to have the Master at the hearing feel sorry for him and throw the book at me..  LOL.....  Let him run his mouth to the girls because no matter what you do it doesn't sound like you are going to be talked about nicely by him to your girls so just comfort them the best you can...  The sooner you are free of this man and a order for custody and support is in place the better you are going to be.....  What is he going to do next, have you arrested for mail fraud....  STBX's are a trip......  Keep your head up!!!!!!!!!!!!
by Departed   533 Posts
Posted on 11/29/2008 4:31 PM
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