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pictures meant to break my heart

after sending my stbx an email telling him of my son's (his step son of 10 years) trip to ground zero he answered me with how proud of him he was to. then his mistress posted a new patch of pictures with my stbx & her children. they are toddlers and my husband looked so happy playing with them. in a few without the kids he looked drunk. but all in all he looked gone completely from my life. i miss him so much. i wish i could wipe him from my memory the pain is so bad.

by ann101   209 Posts 
Posted on 11/27/2008 12:09 AM
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Ann,

Be strong and continue on this journey.  He is done and gone and you deserve to let yourself start again.  Reaching out to him with news or information is only going to invite more pain to you.  Continue the healing process by focusing on the future.   That is where you will find your peace. 

I know it is hard, but be thankful on this day, that you are strong and smart enough to be here with all of us who are hurting too.  We are here for you as part of our healing process, and you are here for us as part of yours.   We are all enduring and we will all find peace.

I hope you have blessed holiday.
by boxerjo   47 Posts
Posted on 11/27/2008 10:50 AM
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your son is your first reason in your life, hang in there. i know it not easy. But as time move on rejoice and give time a chance.
by Billyislost   5 Posts
Posted on 11/27/2008 10:11 AM
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ann,
i am sorry thay you are hurt. that was not a nice thing to do. you should be proud of your son and forget what other people do to try  to hurt you. be strong for you and your son. i know its hard but you can do it. sometimes it takes a while for them to learn that what they are doing is wrong. my ex did the same thing to my kids. he took better care of his new family than his own children. so i know how you feel. have a good turkey day ok.

cherbear
by cherbear   1271 Posts
Posted on 11/27/2008 8:11 AM
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hang in there ann.  i'm in the same boat.  i'm so afraid that my husband will remarry and "forget" our children.  it makes me sad for them.  it makes me feel sorry for me.  it's so hard dealing with rejection and grief.
by Pirish   12 Posts
Posted on 11/27/2008 1:26 AM
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