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I'll be alone for Thanksgiving...

This will be my first ever "Alone for Thanksgiving".  I have a couple of invites for dinner, but if I'm gonna be alone, I'd rather be by myself.

 

My dogs will be here.  I'll be busy painting my house.  I'm not sure yet if I'll buy her out, she'll buy me out or we'll sell the damn thing.  One thing for sure is that it's gonna look good.

 

I'm invited to a local bar where one of my coworkers is performing her first drum solo.  She showed me the tube top she's gonna be wearing and expressed concerns she may fall out of it.

 

I can only hope, and of course being the gentleman I am, I will help any way I possibly can.... Happy Thanksgiving everyone, I wish you the best.


by HereIgo   342 Posts 
Posted on 11/26/2008 10:44 PM
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Hi,

Totally agree with everyone, don't be alone if you don't have to.  You will be THANKFUL that you did.  Your new traditions start today. 

Nice humor Angielou.
by boxerjo   47 Posts
Posted on 11/27/2008 10:31 AM
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HereIgo...go be with your friends!  If you feel like leaving early, you can, but at least give it a shot!  Go to the bar and support (and I literally mean 'support'.....her tube top sounds dangerous!)  your friend.  Be with people who love you!  Have a peaceful day!
by angielou   1025 Posts
Posted on 11/27/2008 8:03 AM
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Happy Thanksgiving. You will do whatever feels best for you for the mood you are in tomorrow. Hang in there.
by militaryp   577 Posts
Posted on 11/26/2008 11:18 PM
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I pray the day brings you unexpected joys and new reasons to be thankful.  May you smile and find humor in the smallest of things.............Happy Thanksgiving....
by Alyce   33 Posts
Posted on 11/26/2008 10:52 PM
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I hope you will at  least make the local bar to support your friend. Maybe you'll get lucky with your hope. Do try to do something for Thanksgiving. Don't stay in the house and be sad.
I like painting when I'm in the right frame of mind. Something about putting fresh paint on a wall. It gives me an instant sense of accomplishment. I am a great painter. Very neat.
by trisha9054   2829 Posts
Posted on 11/26/2008 10:45 PM
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Herelgo,
   Try to go to one of your invites, you will feel better with friends. try not to be alone. I know for me i was alone 2 or 3 times and i found it really hard. I know i sat on the couch and cried for hours. go to the bar and watch your friend play.
ok

happy thanks giving

cherbear
by cherbear   1273 Posts
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