Wife no longer loves me

My wife has just informed me that she doesn't love me and doesn't think she has loved, and now wants a divorce. She has also been going through a terrible year with her job - a horrible boss situation and bad staff. She's been miserable and just asked for a demotion a week or so ago to get out of that situation. We have no kids but do have a house. She says she wants to go to counseling to figure out some things and that I can attend, but that it isn't going to be 'marriage' counseling. Her behavior of the last few weeks has also been way out of character for her - she's normally a very structured person and then she started going out in the middle of the work week until 3 am, etc,... I'd love to hear any thoughts from anyone... Thanks

by Dave1262 1 Post
Posted on 12/26/2007 1:55 PM

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It sounds like she's going through some kind of crisis. It could be depression, it could be a lot of things. Mikem is right, we'd need to know more before anyone could really say. I also think you should go to counseling. It could help you understand what's going on for your wife. At worst, you find out what's going on with her, at best, maybe you can find a way to help. It's possible that she does love you, but is so overwhelmed by the other things going on. I'm not making any guarantees, but if you can be there for her, without smothering her, you might remind her why she loved you in the first place.

by Robert-Boyd 4233 Posts
Posted on 12/26/2007 5:05 PM

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That is hard to hear. I know. Sounds likeyou're doing everything right here. Counseling would be good. But something must be going on with her...you said she's acting different all of a sudden? did you ask her what's going on? what did she say? what are some other signs of her being different?

by mikem 286 Posts
Posted on 12/26/2007 2:12 PM

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