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In a jam

I have been thinking about my soon to be ex wife, I feel this guilt burning deep inside of my person. I want to call her to see how she is doing but I know she will just try to bring me down. Even tho I don't want to be with her I still want to know if she is doing alright. I don't want to give her false hope or rip her heart open again if she is moving on. What do I do!! :(
by loki   13 Posts 
Posted on 11/25/2008 2:52 PM
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I am glad you guys were able to talk. I knew there was such a thing as nice divorces!
by baddlizz   225 Posts
Posted on 11/26/2008 7:37 PM
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she called me back yall!!! WE talked she has a boyfriend and is ok. she said she was sorry for the first call. I think we may move on with out hate:) thats all i wanted. She said to send the papers and she will sign them.
by loki   13 Posts
Posted on 11/26/2008 10:16 AM
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Loki, you're young and you still got a lot of time on your hands even if you don't feel it.

you just didn't spend long enough with her before you got married, you know that, all you can do is chalk that up and, like you said, be the person you want to be.  It's harder than it sounds.

whether it was the right thing or not, you're probably the kind of guy that can't stop worrying about things and people.  not such a bad thing.
by childless   551 Posts
Posted on 11/25/2008 6:15 PM
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Do not call it is making her feel worse even though it makes you feel better.
by 123   798 Posts
Posted on 11/25/2008 5:59 PM
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OK SO THAT WENT A LITTLE DIFFERENT THEN I THOUGHT IT WOULD BUT NOW YOU KNOW.  SOMETIMES I THINK THE UNKNOWN IS WORSE.. TAKE CARE........
by ikey   131 Posts
Posted on 11/25/2008 4:52 PM
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Well I called her. It was strange, she asked me why i called her. I told her that I wanted to know if she was ok. that was pretty much it I had to go. I asked her if she wanted me to call her back. she said I don't know why you called me in the first place. Well at least i know she is ok.
by loki   13 Posts
Posted on 11/25/2008 4:49 PM
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