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I have been married for approx. 10 years. I have only lived with my wife for the first 2 of those years. We basically never talk to each other, we have since had other relationships and have been going on about our lives as if we were just another girlfriend boyfriend break up.
I am now in a very serious relationship and I want to get married- soon. As soon as possible actually I would like to propose on christmas. The only problem is that I am freaking married. We got married in new york. She still lives in new york and i live in pennsylvania. the divorce would be uncontested and we have children or property together. We havent lived together in 8 years like i said. basically, i just need to get out of this legal marriage to her. Can someone more intelligent and law savy please please tell me what to do? I know it sounds desparate but i am. I have asked her to go to the court house in new york where we were married and file but she is lazy and just doesnt. i am unsure if i can file in pa. i am having a hard time finding a lawyer i can afford and none of them will give me any answers.
do i have to file in new york or can i file in pa?
will it be expensive if it is uncontested, no kids, no property?
can someone PLEASE help me, i just want to get on with my real life.
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