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what do I do?

I do not know what to do I have told my husband that I want a divorce. Why? Because we never stop arguing and fighting we have been married for almost 5 years and we have 2 childern together. We live @ his parents house with his brother and his girlfriend who have no respect for anyone who I can not stand. We are always fighting because of his family and the way they treat me and my childeren. He says he cares and he loves me, but I do not think I love him anymore. His family has really put a stress on our relationship he says its all my fault beacuse I cause all the problems..

by kristy101   1 Post 
Posted on 12/25/2007 3:24 AM
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You know, I think that if your husband is blaming only you in everything, then it's not a good sign. I think it'll be better for you to leave for a while and think everything over. That's if you have a possibility to leave somewhere. But if not, then if it's possible - try not to pay attention at anyone for couple days and avoid arguments and see if your relationship improves. And then if it doesn't, then I think you should go for divorce.
by Fairy   25 Posts
Posted on 12/25/2007 7:58 PM
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I agree, I'd try getting your own place. It's not a cure-all, but it will help you 2 focus on what's between you rather than outside stressors.
by Robert-Boyd   3885 Posts
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Have you guys tried liviing in your on place? If possible you guys should get a place of your own with out all the family involvement, and see if the problems continue.
by gomundo2   71 Posts
Posted on 12/25/2007 12:01 PM
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