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wanting to go out but cant

i want to go out but i cant seem to get the courage to go. i tried last weekend to go out by myself and i did but i was lonely. what can i do to stop the sadness and lonlyness.
by cherbear   1261 Posts 
Posted on 11/14/2008 9:05 PM
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i felt the same way i was married for almost 13 years i felt the same way you feel .. i never wanted go out no where or get new friends well, i started going out with my 2 best friends i feel much better try just becareful dont be sad or stay home is not good at all sorry my english is not too good but, i try... take care and god bless you...
by nicaragua73   15 Posts
Posted on 11/27/2008 1:20 PM
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lgoodgal,

i know exactly what you mean about the holidays. i hate them. i no longer look forward to them. i love my kids so much but its really hard to split with them. i know i have to, my kids say that they love to spend christmas day with me. but christmas eve is real hard when im all alone at church.i need to find some friends but dont know where to look. dont know what to do. i think i have to take some kind of class who knows,
by cherbear   1261 Posts
Posted on 11/16/2008 6:22 PM
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I am feeling the same as you and avoid all situations that would lead into spending time around others on the weekend.
Let me/us know how you do next weekend...
Good luck with this

I wish all this divorce stuff didn't happen over the holidays like this.
by lgoodgal   891 Posts
Posted on 11/16/2008 5:34 PM
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You have to make the first step on your own.  Sometimes it may take a while to get to a place where you are comfortable with going out on the town, looking for someone new.

Freedom is right.  You need to start to go out with the friends and having a bit of fun on the weekends.  It can be a whole lot of fun just doing girly things.  You may need to even force yourself a little bit at first and then it will kick into place.

take care
by dyben   613 Posts
Posted on 11/16/2008 4:22 PM
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