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Sadness? Depression? Home-body? after Post Divorce

Sadness? Depression? Home-body? Is anybody else going through this Post Divorce nonsense or is it just me!? Not sure, but I was going through all three of these issues at one time! When my kids are with my ex and his fiance on the weekends (Fri night through Sunday afternoon) I just sit at home and cry! I think about all the things that "they" are doing as a "family" (urrrraaggghhhhh)! I finally got a dog through a friend. She's a rescue dog from Hurricane Ike. She is the best thing since apple pie, and I LOVE APPLE PIE!!!!! I adore her. She keeps me company and I love her for that and so many reasons. I now find myself talking to her alot and going for soooooo many walks with her. She my little angel sent from above. I needed her in my life, especially now since the holidays are coming.

by Betsyp   39 Posts 
Posted on 11/13/2008 1:36 PM
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suz360 - I am going through the EXACT SAME THING with my ex only I was the one who cheat on him and initiated the divorce.  But he is engaged to be married and my 11 year old daughter is doing the same thing with his fiance.  It really doesn't bother me because my daughter is sooooo high maintenance that I really can't afford to be doing those very expensive things with her right now.  So if they want to go broke buying her love, then go right ahead.  I will be at home with my son playing video games and eating popcorn while they are at the mall shopping at Aberocombie and Hollister (yup, she's THAT high maintenance!)  Your daughter will come around and realize what little games they are up to and remember you for who you really are...her mom with an unconditional love that money can't buy.
by Betsyp   39 Posts
Posted on 11/25/2008 12:58 PM
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I never thought anything would hurt as much as my (now ex) husband telling me about his affair. During marriage counseling - he swore he wasn't seeing her anymore - it was just sex --- we divorced and now 2 years after he got caught - he has introduced the kids to his "new girlfriend" who is the OTHER WOMAN. Of course they are going broke trying to buy their love. The kids don't know where she came from. Imagine my pain when my 11 daughter told me that she borrowed the other womans sneakers and that this week they are going to get their nails done - ouch ouch ouch ! Please tell me this pain will subside !!