When to give up

When do you know when it's enough and you have done everything you can to save the marriage. It takes two. When do you give up. Do you continue to stay in a miserable marriage/

by stella 1 Post
Posted on 12/24/2007 2:18 PM

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I personaly believe if you are both honest with each other with a good counselor or Pastor then it is worth fixing. There was probily nothing you each would not do for each other during your time leading up to the wedding so go back to those days as a guidline. Foregiveness and willing to put the past behind and focus on the needed changes for the future are more important that what ever happened because you can not go back and change it now. Pray about it and for each other.

by goingthrewitallnow 8 Posts
Posted on 12/28/2007 12:09 AM

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Miserable marriage has never a reason strong enough to stay! If you fell unhappy in marriage - just leave. And how you know when i's enough - when you see your partner being very passive and not trying to do anything in order to improve your relationship. Also you know that it's enough when you feel that there's nothing else you could try or do. But if you see your partner doing smth and trying to improve it, then may be you should stay with him for a while.

by Fairy 25 Posts
Posted on 12/25/2007 8:03 PM

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I need a little more information about what you have been through. A marriage does take two and if one party is already checked out you might want to move on. Have you tried counseling? Has the trust been questioned in this relationship? This is hard to overcome. I believe in making a marriage work but if you are the only one actively working on this marriage you might want to rethink things.

by Barkley 912 Posts
Posted on 12/24/2007 5:15 PM

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I think if you're still asking, it's not too late. When you've reached that point when you just shrug and shake your head, then it's done. It does take 2., and not knowing what you have and haven't tried, I don't know what to suggest that might help. For now, I'll pray for you.

by Robert-Boyd 4233 Posts
Posted on 12/24/2007 4:32 PM

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