Help, I am just devastated and cannot stop crying. Now I am moving toward hatred and I don't want to be there.

Husband moved myself and 2 daughters to London then told us it was over. He flew us home to the states to an empty house and told me to file for divorce. He told me yesterday that the person he has begun seeing for 3 months is spending the weekend in our home. I can't stop thinking about it. Why is he so cruel? Please help me.

by UStoUKtoUS 9 Posts
Posted on 12/22/2007 9:25 AM

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Peaches, please go to www.divorcecare.org This is a great site. All the emotions you mentioned are perfectly normal. If you go to this site, you can learn a lot and plus find a local group that you can connect with to find support and be with people who know how you feel. You will get a lot of advice (good and bad) from friends, relatives and even strangers...but a DC support group can help put all that advice into perspective and put you on the path to healing.

by Krollwage 1 Post
Posted on 1/26/2008 10:30 PM

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I can understand the feeling of being let down , understand that this isnt your fault and certainly not the childrens fault, pick yourself up even though it will seem hard, but the children need you, think about it being a blessing to you because what he did to you and the kids shows you that he doesnt care about anyone else except himself, and you dont need that in your life. Focus more on yourself and the children and move on, God has someone out there for you waiting around the corner, you can get through this, it may seem hard right now but it will get better.

by step 26 Posts
Posted on 12/26/2007 10:12 AM

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Firecracker is right. I don't know why your Husband does what he does; I can only see the effect. I'm sorry. I know this time is really bad. You have every right to be angry with your ex. If you can, try to forgive him. It'll help the kids. I wouldn't worry too much about the full range of emotions you feel now, sort through them as you can, but know that you're going to feel them. But each day, it'll get better. You just need to press through and concentrate on what's right for you and your kids. You can do this.

by Robert-Boyd 4233 Posts
Posted on 12/22/2007 2:55 PM

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I think its time to start thinking about whats best for you an your family. i think you need to consider an attn and counseling. This is a tough time, but you can get thru this. Counseling works. I really think you need someone to talk to! Good luck! keep us posted!

by firecracker 153 Posts
Posted on 12/22/2007 2:38 PM

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