cant believe this

after everything i have been through.. all the crap i put up with he continues to deny everything that he has done. from raising his hands to the vulgar words he speaks to me.. last night i was practically ambushed by his whole family.. they did nothing but make threats at me.. call me horrible names screaming in my face and my soon to be ex just sat there with a smile on his face. all in front of my two young children.. i asked numerous times for them to leave and they refused.. the smartest thing to do was for me to have left with the kids buut i dont drive and it was pouring raining out.. this went on for over 2 hours.. if i left the room they would just follow me. it was disgusting.. i am scared that this will happen again.. he continies to lie to them and he tells them i do hat i am accusing him of doing.. they now claim they will be here every 2 days to make sure i am on my best behavor until the divorce is over... what do i do??? i cant live like this.. the stress is taking a toll on me... any advice welcome

by mommy2graces 15 Posts
Posted on 11/6/2008 6:18 AM

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Oh my goodness, when I read your post I just wanted to reach through my computer and give you a great big {{HUG}}

They should not be doing that to you I agree with DeborahT and mtnvly, you need to talk to your lawyer and document everything, and is their any friends or family that can help? I sure hope so . No one should have to go through anything like that especially in front of your children , my heart goes out to you, good luck and keep us posted !

by veryclueless 34 Posts
Posted on 11/6/2008 12:26 PM

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I don't know how you can put up with this, if you went to another room, they followed. Do you not have any locks on the doors to keep them out? Are you going to be staying in the house after the divorce or is he? If you are going to leave then I think that I would already be out looking to find another place to stay. Nobody should have to endure that kind of harrassment, and especially in front of your children. Do you have a relative or a friend that you could go and stay with?

by deborah-trevino 723 Posts
Posted on 11/6/2008 6:55 AM

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Good grief! You need to talk to your lawyer and see what can be done. There is not excuse for his or their behavior. He is denigrating you in front of the kids.That is inexcusable! How old are your kids? Are they old enough to tell someone what is going on so it is not just a he said she said thing?
I cannot believe what some people will go to to hurt their ex or stbx, including hurting the kids.
How long til this is done for you? Is it possible to make him leave? Are you writing all of this down with dates etc?

by mtnvly 2544 Posts
Posted on 11/6/2008 6:29 AM

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