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so done..just need answers....

I'm sick of his answers to his infideliditly.....not worthy of this post!!!...Alll i want to know is if when I filed last time...same basis,,,,mentally crutelty, battery, etc. and then backed off....if I re-file...AND i HAVE PROOF Of HIM saying that he is faithful, blah blah can I use that against him to pay for my attorney's fee's since he re-niged on the agreement....I also have a "contract" that everything he told me was true.....not so. can i file on these indiscretions???? He also promised to go to counseling...didn't happen....etc. Thought I threw it out...found it tonight....I live in IL....could this help me alll????
by momof4Illinois   253 Posts 
Posted on 11/3/2008 8:58 AM
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If you re-file it can only be for things done after the first filing, as you "forgave" the rest due to taking him back.

Bring whatever you have to your attorney, it will be their choice to use it or not...highly doubtful the "contract" will be useful, he can just say you forced him to sign it...(I personally wouldn't use it - doesn't mean another attorney wouldn't...I want HARD evidence)

Doesn't matter about the counseling.

You can ask for attorney fees because he farts - doesn't mean it will be awarded to you. =) That is judicial discretion.
by spaznskitz   4803 Posts
Posted on 11/3/2008 12:15 PM
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