How to spend your wedding anniverasary alone.

Ok, I know the quick answer would be to treat it like any other day. But it's not that simple. This is a day filled with happy memories. I bought a card for him (out of habit I guess), should I send it to him? I want to send him a text but should I? I know the answer to all of this is NO, but I have to do something. Ok people, give me feed back. How did you handle your anniversary without your partner? Please tell me it's easy to do. :(

by Tuff 36 Posts
Posted on 10/16/2008 10:09 AM

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My 15th is approaching. Last year we went on a wonderful long weekend vacation. This year, its just another day in the week as far as I am concerned. I guess the day is meaningless now since on last year's anniversary, while we were having such a terrific vacation together, she was busy texting and calling her boyfriend while I wasn't looking. Slut.

2CD

by 2CoolDaughters 185 Posts
Posted on 10/17/2008 7:40 AM

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I wanted to ignore it. (It was Oct 7). He gave me a dozen white roses and a sympathy card ("thinking of you in this time of loss). He said it helped him to think of the marriage that way (dead). I was really impressed with the way he handled it.

by sheilah 159 Posts
Posted on 10/17/2008 1:23 AM

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I agree with Paula. This is serious business. Do what you feel is right. Only you know deep inside your gut what to do and the real reasons for your decision.
Our court hearing is set up 9 days before our anniversary. We almost made it to the next one. I wish we could and I wouldn't be in this site typing BUT we all have to face reality at some point. Good luck with your decision.

by lgoodgal 872 Posts
Posted on 10/16/2008 2:16 PM

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do what feels right to you. if you feel like sending a card and text. do it. now is not the time to play games. divorce is serious business. if you have feelings for this person, it should be known now.

by paula1 6917 Posts
Posted on 10/16/2008 2:01 PM

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