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really stress. bp is up now

 it hasnt been a good day  all together, went to a attorney knowing i cant afford him , i dont have 1500 or 500 just to start, but he did give me some ideals , not to leave the house and get a 30 days when it comes close to the orginal 30 days , i guesss oct 8th to nov 6th is the 30 days when i got the papers so before nov 6th get and extension. but here s the thing , i just to in the mail that the house is going up for foreclosure. being that im not on the loan im not responsible for it , so now i  got another problem finding a place cause frm what i read the dont have to give me 30 days to leave. wow this man really doesnt care for his children to do something like this, i have alot of proof i just need to get the money for alot of things.

i even thought about submitting my own response and then a counterclaim i dont know , i m just in panic mode now. i might have to have a garage sale just to come up with the money. but will that be used a gainst me in the ed?


by jazzlblue   26 Posts 
Posted on 10/15/2008 7:53 PM
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no my sister cant help me to be honest she cant even help her self. i have tried to get a credit card he has missed my credit up im desputing alot of things on my report now. i had a job interview this week , but im still calling others that i have put my application in with .
by jazzlblue   26 Posts
Posted on 10/16/2008 11:27 PM
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Can you get a credit card in your name to use only to pay the atty? Are would your sister loan you the money for a retainer for the atty? If you're able, start trying to find a job. I hope  you can get some legal help. I'm sorry all I could do is give suggestions.
Take care
by trisha9054   1931 Posts
Posted on 10/16/2008 11:20 PM
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my mother is dead and my sister is not a realible to help me so im out here on my own. i called legal aide they cant help me cause  being that he makes so much they really cant help me . im very very despert its like i am not going to be able to fight this battle. i dont know how to go and file a exstension myself i asked they said its best to have a attorney to do it, i even asked the attorney if there was a way he could take his fee out of the marital assets once the property is sold and he more likely said it really up to the court to decide to do that even the military is not help on domesitc unless the two parties agree on everything. . im getting more and more depressed  cause i see im about to lose all that i put in this marriage. i know i have months before the foreclosure is final but until then im like a animal in a corner trying to fight her way out but it getting tired cause i have no where to turn to for help. i can say this for those that are house wives go get a job dont depend on that man to take care of you that was my mistake there. now im a bout to pay for it.sometimes i feel like just ending it all but my children are depending on me. im sorry im so upset i dont know what to do or what to say to get the help i need . i just want my chldren to be taking care of and i cant even do that.
by jazzlblue   26 Posts
Posted on 10/16/2008 11:05 PM
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you can't do anything with marital assets now that a divorce is filed - you can get into a lot of trouble with the court.

Don't you have family you can turn to?
by spaznskitz   3916 Posts
Posted on 10/15/2008 11:33 PM
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