My marriage is out of control

My wife thinks that I have cheated on her. Over the pas 9.5 years of marriage we have had 2 beautiful kids. I have spoken to an ex a few times over the course of our marriage, but thats all. I know that I shoudnt have, but I cant change the past. Now she is 110% convinced that I have cheated. I have tried everything I know to do. We tried counseling, but it didnt ease her rage that she feels towards me. So now she and a cousin of hers (who is also married) frequent night clubs and stay out to all hours of the night. I have asked her to stop and told her how much I love her. She has also gotten a new cell phone account and will not give me the password or let me see her bill. She has changed all the passwords to her email and myspace accounts and refuses to let me see who she has been talking to. What do I do? I love this woman, but do I need to wake up and get out?

by need-help 1 Post
Posted on 12/17/2007 8:22 PM

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It sounds to me like your wife is going overboard. You both need to work out your trust issue, it sounds like you have tried to explain the truth to her but she is refusing to believe you. She is not trying to work this out. She is only creating more lies and mistrust between you two. This needs to stop before she spirals out of control. She does not need to keep secrets from you. Can you get her to go with you to counseling? It also seems like she is using your mistake to justify her behavior.

by Barkley 912 Posts
Posted on 12/17/2007 9:40 PM

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