scheduling

my exhusband is constantly changing the kids scheduling on me, and says because i have primary physical custody, i have to adhere to what he says and when he will take the kids because he is paying me full child support and will take the kids whenever he pleases! if at all? what can i do?

by Annmarie 1 Post
Posted on 12/17/2007 7:42 PM

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The police won't get involved with a situation like that because it is a civil matter. Tell him he has to stick to the rules of the agreement. They are VERY specific.

by Soltero 3 Posts
Posted on 12/22/2007 5:12 AM

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it is all for the kids i went through the same thing...but i was paying him child support and he shared visitation.. After 10 years the children understand and still love me dont worry what ever he does the kids will always love you even when they are all grown up ....

by vivian 2 Posts
Posted on 12/21/2007 3:18 PM

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somebody has to be the bigger person it sounds like he is probably angry about who knows what or who cares but if you need to have a break sometimes and you don't have a lot of other support from family or friends the time he spends with the kids may be beneficial to you as well as the kids the court will only fine him or put him in jail which will not solve the problem I would suggest to try to talk to him as much as possible things will change in time

by Tee 2 Posts
Posted on 12/18/2007 12:56 PM

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He must follow the court order visitation schedule. Contact your attorney immediately.

by Barkley 912 Posts
Posted on 12/17/2007 9:45 PM

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Take him back to court. If the court order states that he is to pick them up at a specific time, thats when he picks them up. Child support and visitation are 2 different things. He CANT do what he pleases. You need to fight back or get the police involved. Show them the court order and maybe they can talk sense in to him. If not, dont be around when he comes to get them. A few times of doing that and he might just get the hint. I know it may be tough on the kids but they are your kids too.

by Lori-Woodall 876 Posts
Posted on 12/17/2007 7:52 PM

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