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Clarification on “What about a car I'm not supposed to know about."

Thanks for your earlier responses.  Sorry I wasn't more clear.

First, We are still in the same house because I haven't filed yet nor have I told him I'm going to get a divorce.  Second, we have NO joint checking or credit card accounts so when I pulled my report in March there was only my information.  I didn't think I could get his info even though I am his wife, so I didn't try. Third, He didn't buy the car to get around in.  He has a brand new GMC Z71 pick-up and a small Nissan PU right here at the house.  So what I’m wondering is, where's the mysterious other car?.. And who’s driving it?  OR did he finally buy a Classic Corvett and store it?  That's why I want to know if I should care.  What I am thinking is, it is a “hidden asset”  btw:  I’m in Oklahoma.  So “the other woman” thing won’t change anything.  But hidden assets will.

by Blastit   8 Posts 
Posted on 10/15/2008 7:55 AM
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You are so right spasnskitz. LOL  Duh.  Of course! That's what he does!  Lie.  I guess I just didn't think of it that way.  Sheesh!  I'm musta started slippin' back into believing them!  Yipes!  Better get past that one.  Thanks for the light bulb.
by Blastit   8 Posts
Posted on 11/1/2008 4:18 PM
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ok wait - you are going by an IM that he bought a car? that's all the proof you have?

c'mon Blast - if he is a cheater he's a liar too - I doubt there is a car - just a story to make him look cool to this person -
by spaznskitz   3916 Posts
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He left an IM open on his laptop that popped up when I decided to play a game on it.  It was rather ... huh ... inappropriate.  Yep, I read the rest of them.  One invited a ... person ... to go to a certain car dealership with him to look at a car he wants to buy.  The person apologizes for not seeing the IM in time to accept his invite; then asks, "Did you find the car you wanted?"  Answer:  "Yep.  Found it. Bought it." 
by Blastit   8 Posts
Posted on 10/17/2008 7:17 AM
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how do you know there is a car and could there be a possibility he is a victim of identity theft and not know about it?
by spaznskitz   3916 Posts
Posted on 10/16/2008 12:49 AM
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