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I think maybe instead of trying to match what she's doing, you should focus on just getting yourself healed. Before you get into a relationship with another woman, take all this alone time to reflect on what happened to your marriage, and decide what you really want from someone. I know it's tough being alone, because then there's nothing to distract us from ourselves. But trust me, you'll be better off spending time grieving and healing before involving another person. By the way, as far as I'm aware, the only morality clause you can get will prevent her from having a member of the opposite sex spend the night in the house when your child is there. There's nothing to prevent her from spending daytime with the boyfriend and your child. There's nothing immoral about that in the eyes of the law.
If she's moved on too soon, her relationship will suffer for it, and she'll find that out soon enough. But keep in mind, what's good for you is good for her, and vice versa. If you put any morality clause or special exclusions in your divorce, they apply to you as well as her. Good luck to you, and stay strong.
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