I need a mantra or phrase!!

I have also found that my husband has been going to those porn websites. I think he is just looking, but, he has a profile on there, etc, etc, I found his email address and password. That is how I found it out. He has been surfing there for a few months now and I am printing out everything just in case i need it for evidence, but, it is not alot with the courts and all, but, it does prove evidence of his "wanting an extra marital affair. I am sure he is "on" to the fact that I have found it out, but, haha, I am not even letting on one little bit. But, if i do he will pay for it this time. I will take no more BS! I don't have my plan "ready" as yet but it will come! I am bidding my time and I feel so in control now. It feels good!

This might be a good mantra... If God be for me who can be against me?

Welcome to d360.....You will find this is a great place to come for information, support, and just venting if you want! Everyone here has experienced a whole realm of things involving everything comcerning a divorce....

You need to just remember YOU are NOT the problem!!!! HE IS!

Hmmmm ok for one it's not your fault, He is living in his dream world. The only thing you can do is when de decides to text in front of you  smile and think to your self I can do better that will give you the picture your mind needs and walk away pay him no attention you don't have to play his game. remove your self for his game area with a smile. You do not take the blame for some one elses inmaturity.

Every time you see him doing something so selfish and childish, just remind yourself "I deserve better".  Or, try "this is not my husband"...or "My new life is on the way".  They all worked for me.  Mine did the same thing...the talking on the phone and texting and emailing in front of me.  But all I could do was look forward to the day he finally got the hell out and I could REALLY breathe again, and let go of all my anger and resentment.  He is trying to get to you, like a child would, and the best you can do is exactly what you've been doing.  Focus on yourself.  Good Girl!

Thank you all for the input I will use all the input.This is my 1st post and this is very cathartic.thank u thanku

I AM WROTHY OF LOVE & LAUGHTER!

Repeat as needed. This will help you feel good about yourself and it will flow out of you!

Then Laugh your ass off every time you see him. When he asks whats up. Just say, you! HA HA HA