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Well, I finally had the BALLS to call an make an appointment with an attorney tomorrow I just don't know what questions to ask??
I guess what pushed me to see one is everything I have been going through I realized I don't "love" him anymore it's just not there I care for him but, the "love" has gone away. I have forgiven him one to many times already and have done my part to save my marriage.
On Saturday he had to work 2nd shift and of course that was so hard for me because the "ow" works that shift what made me realize that he doesn't or didn't take my feelings into consideration was he didn't even bother to call me to tell me "hey I will be working a little longer than expected" "don't worry" NOPE no phone call that is when I knew he doesn't take my feelings into consideration it's just about him all it did was bring back old memories when he used to work that shift and the late nights coming home till 3 or even 6 in the morning.....
When I woke up yesterday I thougt that's it I have had about enough I am not happy I am miserable with him here he has been forgiven over and over again I have tried to make my marriage work counseling, forgiving him, changing my ways to please him, and I see no effort in his part and one big thing was He is still there in his job ever since the affair happened he has not made no effort to look for another career at least to save our marriage what he did do was take a promotion and that's when I knew it's just about him!!!! fuck my feelings !!
He never made or has made an effort to look for another job knowing that is job and his actions were the main problem in our marriage.
So, tomorrow is a big day for me I just don't know what I should ask??? please give me some of your feedback I want to make sure I ask all the right questions....
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