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Is my wife cheating on me?

My wife and I have been happily married for 5 years - at least I think so. We do the dirty twice a week. Every time we do the deed, I am always on top. Five years...twice a week...this is over 500 times. I thought that she was satisfied and often calls me her "jack hammer." However, on Saturday night, she insisted that she be on top. She claimed she just wanted to try something new. But I can't help but thinking that she cheated on me with another man that taught her this new position. I did not sleep last night because I am so sick over this and have not been able to concentrate at work today. Do you think she is cheating on me???
by Rod   2 Posts 
Posted on 12/17/2007 8:49 AM
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Perhaps it's like shopping. She loves shopping at Burdines, but all of a sudden she had a sudden urge to shop at Victoria's Secret or Frederick's of Hollywood. I would go with it; you might like her spicier boutique!
by angelhead   17 Posts
Posted on 12/26/2007 12:19 PM
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Rod, I hate to state the obvious, but why not ask her why she wanted to change positions and gage her answers. Come right out and ask her if she's considered cheating and assess her answers calmly. I know it must be hard to face the fact that she might say yes, however if so don't you want to know?? Then you're in control, either you can work to repair the damage or not, it's your choice and you've been mature and responsible. You're the good guy. If she hasn't she'll respect your honesty and concern. It's never good to worry and wonder.
by Cristie   5 Posts
Posted on 12/20/2007 4:57 PM
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I do not think she is having an affair. You need to be a little more secure in your relationship and with your sex life. You should be thrilled that after five years she is wanting to try new things. Let her be in control every once in awhile. Girls talk.... and talk about new fun things. Enjoy!!!!
by Bea4   406 Posts
Posted on 12/19/2007 9:43 PM
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Rod, it's probably 50/50 at this point if she is or has committed audultry on you. Try and sense if "doing the dirty deed" next time feels different than it use to. That would probably give you an indicator if she has or not! Go with your gut feeling, it's normally right!
by rossy   15 Posts
Posted on 12/19/2007 8:25 AM
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Rod, I hate to raise your blood pressure, but I think you have good reason to be concerned. After five years of marriage, my ex-wife decided that she wanted to spice up our sex life. It started out small - just like with your wife. But then, she got wilder and wilder. Soon I found out that an old boyfriend and here were having an affair. We were divorced within 6 months of her trying to introduce new positions. Watch out my friend!!
by Kenny   2 Posts
Posted on 12/18/2007 3:44 PM
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I agree with gomundo2. Are there any other signs? She could have been talking to a girlfriend(s) and might have talked about being on top,and how much she liked it,or the guy did. I would suggest to her that the 2 of you get a book or something and discover new positions together and see how she reacts. Hope this helps.
by ncshoppe   24 Posts
Posted on 12/17/2007 1:06 PM
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gomundo2, A movie!...OH MY GOD! I had not even though of that. ! Do you think her and her new boyfriend watch those kind of movies while I'm at the office? I really can't stop thinking about this. I'm so upset she may be cheating on me. Rod
by Rod   2 Posts
Posted on 12/17/2007 9:53 AM
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