How can I move on from my marriage?

I discovered today that my wife of 6 years has urges to cheat on me. She has already cheating once 2 years ago and after many sessions of therapy, I decided to stay and give our marriage every opportunity to work. To this day it is hard for me to look at my wife the same, but now in light of this new development, I realize emotionally, I have to leave. I can't keep putting myself through the pain of infidelity. The only hitch is I have a 1 year old that I love so much, I can't bear not living with him, or sharing custody. What should I do? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

by krossett 2 Posts
Posted on 12/16/2007 7:44 PM

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Thank you both for your help and support. I know it has been a while since this reply, but things have been rather confusing to say the least. I will be back when I get a handle on things. In the meantime thank you so much, your words give me energy.

by krossett 2 Posts
Posted on 1/4/2008 12:11 AM

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Does she say she loves you? Why does she want to cheat? She needs to be honest with herself and you. Make sure you are still fun to be with and help he remember why you two fell in love in the first place. Keep the excitement in the relationship so she does not want to "stray" I know it is hard after years of marriage and a child but you both need to put each other first.

by Barkley 912 Posts
Posted on 12/17/2007 10:12 PM

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leaving will be better for you emotionally.. but the courts will decide the custody arrangements if you and your wife can not agree upon things. I would make a plan of how you would like the custody situtation.. try to be fair.. and present it to your wife.. or the courts. Hopefully she will agree with you

by Nichola 23 Posts
Posted on 12/17/2007 7:54 AM

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