Do you ever feel alone, while still with your partner?

Been there done that--have the t-shirt to prove it!! :)  When my ex and I were still together and married, I felt alone because he always took off and did his own thing by himself, not with me and the kids, but by himself.  I always had to say I love you first then he would say love ya--not even the whole sentence--guess he couldn't get enough energy to do that.  I always had to initiate sex with him, because he would never make the first move, so if I wanted it I had to go after it I guess you could say.  We hardly talked anymore and whenever we did he would criticize me and I could never ever do anything right in his eyes, or the kids couldn't do anything right either no matter how hard they tried to.  We used to talk to each other on the phone alot and then that stopped all together and he acted so distant and moody.  But then I found out he was lying and cheating on me -- so it all added up, he was unhappy with our marriage and I think he's just an unhappy person.  He's very selfish and everything has to be about him and if you don't show him enough attention he gets pissed, plain and simple and pouts like a 2 yr old with a temper tantrum.  So yeah I felt alone many times with him and I have already told my mom that right now being divorced from him - there's really no difference than being married to him, the only difference being that he isn't here anymore.  Which is a great thing to tell ya the truth!! :)

been there dude. hell, i was there for a while. i know how much it hurts when all you want is for her to show some sign of care for you. you watch as she pulls farther and farther away but still expects you to be there and do her bidding. brother it is time to let go.  i had no idea how free i would feel after i told her i wanted a divorce. but free i do feel. she has controlled me for so long that i  did not even know myself. but now i do, i am learning, i am growing, i am stronger. and in time my friend so will you.
good luck and god bless.