Do I say anything?

My sons friend told another friend that my husband was spending a lot of time at his house. He felt sorry for my son. My husband has been watching football at his house with his Mom. The kids are not allowed to tell my son but things do get out (from the Mom of the friend that my sons friend told). Not good for my son since he did that with his Dad. How will he feel when he hears that his Dad has been spending so much time at his friends house? Without him? Not sure what to do. I am almost at the point where I just don't care anymore....I just do not want my son to hurt. Who knows what my husband is doing??? Or he just might want to see the game. I have been going back and forth about saying anything. What should I do?

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Posted on 10/6/2008 10:31 PM

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Thank you. I have decided not to say anything. It would only make everything harder. He has been unusally happy and wants to go to lunch tomorrow. Either he will be giving me papers or telling me he realizes he made a mistake (1% chance). If he does mention he is going over to see the game then I will say that the son is talking and might tell our son.

by 123 762 Posts
Posted on 10/7/2008 11:19 AM

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He is not just there to see the game ,sorry.
Does he spend time with your son also? When he is supposed to?
I know it is hard but I think I would let your son find out on his own unless he asks you...Due to the fact that you don't want to "hurt " whatever relationship might be left between them. I would not get involved...just be there for your son. He will find out on his own.
That is my 2 cents..I would not do it. You don't want him coming back later and saying you were trying to come between them. If he finds out on his own then you are not involved.

by mtnvly 2542 Posts
Posted on 10/7/2008 7:59 AM

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