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She left him because he's broke???

Well, the one he cheated on me with left him last Sunday. He apologized to me tonight when I picked up my daughter from visitation. He said he now knows what I felt because she did to him what he did to me and the shoe is on the other foot. Funny Once he was ordered to pay $2000 in child support arrears, she left. I always believed she was a gold digger..... My Teenage daughter feels the same way. Now he wants me to forgive his debt because he can't pay his bills. But I've known him to exaggerate and not be able to budget. So now...what to do. Any takers?

by happilydivorced   8 Posts 
Posted on 10/5/2008 8:50 PM
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I have to agree.  He made his bed now let him lie in it.  It's called Karma and karma's a bitch and can kick ya in the butt at the least possible moment and he's found that one out for himself.  Too bad for him.  He owes back child support then he needs to pay up.  It's not your fault that he doesn't know how to budget and owes more money than he makes.  He'll need to figure out a way to pay it back.  My ex left me for a tramp he works with and he's whining now because when we sell the house we will have to take a loss due to the market, he's whining around he has no money to do this, I told him tough you'll have to find a way to make it work, it's in our divorce papers that he pay the loss.  So don't back down now.  That money goes to support your daughter and if you let him out of it, that's cheating your daughter out of what's hers.  Plus I don't think the child support enforcement agency will let him out of it, at least the one in our State won't.  They will take his tax refund if he hasn't paid it by them.  It's court ordered support and he has to pay it, no matter if he has money or not.  So stick to your guns!! :)  Good luck.
by freedom   796 Posts
Posted on 10/6/2008 6:56 PM
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Oh no...don't you dare. He made his bed now let him lay in it . It was not your choice for him to do what he did. But you were awarded the money in court.
This is a good example for the things we do coming back to bite us.
If he can't afford it then he needs to file in court to get it reduced or get an additional job so he can afford it. Not your problem honey!
Hang tough...I really feel sorry for him( not).
by mtnvly   2542 Posts
Posted on 10/6/2008 12:40 AM
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