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Fighting for my kids

Hello all!

 

I'm going to court today to fight the OFP from my "crazy" STBX and I need just need to feel a little love from everyone here! so Please send some good love to me and the guts to fight this woman! I just want to see my kids again! My court time is 1:30 CST so if you can say a prayer, light a candle, rub buda's belly, or what every you may do to in your particular faith please help me out!

 

Thanks everyone!

 

Gorf


by Gorf   162 Posts 
Posted on 9/5/2008 8:23 AM
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I got them BACK!!!!

I did find out that the BF was at the house the whole time the order was enfaced! She even left my kids with this guy alone. This is a guy she meant online! I don't know what to do? I so afraid for what could have happened to my kids, and she is telling the kids this is the new guy, and acting like a new family. We have not even had our first court date!

Gorf
by Gorf   162 Posts
Posted on 9/6/2008 9:27 AM
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Lots of luck to you!  Hope you come out a winner.........
by Larters   129 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 11:14 PM
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Good luck to you! Gorf. Give her all you have....Let us know how it works out!
by mtnvly   3539 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 8:15 PM
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All the best. Tell us how it goes!
by WonderWhy   76 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 3:10 PM
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As a parent who divorced 20 years ago with kids (divorcing again).I have to echo others' advice: S/HE WITH THE MOST CALM WINS. I know how hard when about kids - but for results, you MUST keep your emotions together.  Other people NOT going through this think emotional folks are a bit off their rocker, so stay composed. And know we are all thinking of you. Prayers. And remember, your kids will always love you & always be your kids - focus LOVE on them whenever you see them - create GOOD MEMORIES & you win, regardless!
by PowWow   3 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 10:58 AM
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Keep in mind that to increase your odds in court .. you need to be very calm and not appear angry .. even though you are feeling that inside.

Good luck!
by WaveringWendy   50 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 9:58 AM
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I will pray for you. Keep the kids in your mind as you go to court.
Take care and good luck
by trisha9054   4967 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 9:28 AM
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Good Luck. I will pray and think of you today.  Everything is going to be fine.
by achiever479   138 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 9:26 AM
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You have my support. I will say a prayer, and keep you in my thoughts. Be confident and keep the faith. You have the strength to do this.
by Cheydara   371 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 9:12 AM
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Sending a prayer your way!!!!!!
by __STRIKER__   1399 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 8:41 AM
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Good luck to you...I will most definatly say a prayer and be thinking of you today....and YES you do have the strength to fight for those kids....dont look at it as fighting "her"...just do it for the kids....YOU CAN DO IT!  Keep us posted on what happens!
by SKelly   265 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 8:40 AM
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good luck today!  please tell us what happened as soon as you can.  we'll all be thinking about you.
by paula1   12662 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 8:37 AM
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I will do all the above and hope it goes in your favor.  I can't imagine not having my kids in my life.  I was lucky, my ex didn't want them...I feel for you and your fight.  Remember to keep your cool and think of the kids.  That is the goal.  Good luck.  You are in my thoughts.
by momof4   9 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 8:32 AM
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