How do you begin again?

I've been out of the dating game so long I'm lost on how to talk to someone new to even get to the point of a date. I may not be ready although I'm long overdue. Men have shown interest (thank God for that one), but it terrified me and I actually ran away. I think another failure is clouding my judgement. Anyone with ideas of how to get past this road block?

by BJ 6 Posts
Posted on 12/7/2007 1:17 PM

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I had similar feelings when I got back out there. Online dating is a great place to start. When I did start to actually meet people, I had a strict 60 minute first date rule. All first dates were 60 minutes whether they were good or bad. If they were good, I got to leave him (and me) wanting more and if it was bad, I knew I could handle anything for 60 minutes. People also like to talk about themselves so ask questions...it will get you started. All the Best.

by Angie-Milhous 5 Posts
Posted on 12/11/2007 4:56 PM

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Try some of the online dating sites. It's an easy way to start talking and get out there, without really being out there....until you're ready.

by samantha 83 Posts
Posted on 12/7/2007 4:19 PM

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BJ, just be yourself. Have confidence to get out there and have fun. This is your time. Take a friend with you to help with the conversation. You will be fine.

by Bea4 406 Posts
Posted on 12/7/2007 2:49 PM

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BJ i really believe that the only way to get over your fears is to just do it...go on that first date as soon as you can to "break the ice". That may be easier said than done, but i really think it is the best way. Good luck and have fun!

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by John Smith
Posted on 12/7/2007 2:03 PM

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