What to do...

Not sure what to do or how to deal with everything. For months I thought it couldn't work. School is about to start and I need to decide on separated or together. He is demanding all or nothing. I have mixed feelings because I can't promise everything will be fine. Help!

by CrazyOne 15 Posts
Posted on 8/22/2008 12:04 PM

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Marriage counseling was tried, as well as individual counseling. He had a car accident on Sept 1, and guilt led me back, but I am truly trying as is he. Things seem about the same, and tensions are beginning to rise again. Not sure what our future holds, but thank you for all your advice and support.

by CrazyOne 15 Posts
Posted on 11/9/2008 9:21 AM

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You need to seek counseling to be able to express your feelings to someone. You two need to communicate a little better. He needs to attend counseling with you if you want to work this out.

by Barkley 912 Posts
Posted on 8/22/2008 9:52 PM

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He is putting pressure on you and making your decision more difficult. Maybe you should go away for the weekend WITHOUT HIM and try to straighten out things in your own head. All or nothing????Ok?
Maybe you should tell him if it is ALL then he needs to start looking for a marriage counselor!!! He needs to be giving his all too!

by mtnvly 3539 Posts
Posted on 8/22/2008 2:05 PM

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Get to a quiet space. Pray and settle down.

Get grounded where you are, talk to a best friend and stay calm.

Your planning next few days is critical.

by WonderWhy 76 Posts
Posted on 8/22/2008 12:59 PM

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Have you tried marriage counseling?

by BlueB 2982 Posts
Posted on 8/22/2008 12:55 PM

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