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I have been married 18 years now we are seperated and my husband has told our 16 yr old daughter that he has a 4 yr old child from an affair. How do I find out it this is true?  I don't know the mothers name
by mothertc   2 Posts 
Posted on 8/19/2008 6:11 PM
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I did ask him about the child he won't give me further info.  He said he doesn't want to give me more ammo for the divorce.  He told our daughter so she could meet her half-sister.  At this time he claims he is dating 5 different women (one of whom is married)  This is why I am trying to find information on my own.  I just don't know how to find out without his assist  He also claims he has been paying child support out of our joint accounts since the affair.
by mothertc   2 Posts
Posted on 8/19/2008 9:54 PM
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Why would he tell his teenage daughter?  I would confront him with this, he obviously wants you to know about the 4 year old.  Is he dating anyone?
by Barkley   912 Posts
Posted on 8/19/2008 8:24 PM
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Ask him,he wouldn't have told your daughter if he didn't want you to know about her.MEN??????? Hold your head up and I wish you the best.
by heavenly   97 Posts
Posted on 8/19/2008 7:51 PM
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