I need help or advise on my kids.....to sum it up as much as I can, I am remarried, have two kids from first husband and two with the second. I am the primary custodian and recently I agreed with my ex husband that the children will stay with him as if he was the primary. I wrote a letter saying " As of (this day xx-xx-xxxx) Savana and Dakota will live with their father temporarily until further notice" We both signed it and they have been with him since last year around April. What I would like to know is if I were to take them back would he get anything out of him taking me back to court? The other factor I am worried about is that my daughters school is going down hill, my son is acting up and cursing in school, the ex husband and his girlfriend are not calling me to tell me that they have actives at school that I could attend, my children also have told me that they HAVE TO call his girlfriend mom, they have told me that they don't want to go back and want to live with me. The school counselor has been talking to them cause she was concerned and the girlfriend and ex didn't know any of this along with how bad their grades have gotten.