cookster

My ex-husband smoke "maryjane" and that was my biggest problem. We argue so much because I did not allow him to smoke inside the house and it was affecting us financially.

He did what he wanted to do and anything I say or do he would just completely ignore it. So, I pretty much did not have a choice. I would like to bring this to the judge attention but Im afraid. help,advise.

by cookster 5 Posts
Posted on 8/8/2008 4:23 PM

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wow oops typo city, sorry about that - had the baby on my lap

by spaznskitz 3896 Posts
Posted on 8/9/2008 12:25 AM

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that won't fly in california....you ave to have a reasonalble basis - and prior use over 4 years ago, won't cut it...

by spaznskitz 3896 Posts
Posted on 8/9/2008 12:25 AM

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Have you considered asking your attorney to request drug testing for both of you as you are concerned about his past and current drug use?

by scarlette 2 Posts
Posted on 8/8/2008 8:41 PM

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nope, it would have to be within the past year.

by spaznskitz 3896 Posts
Posted on 8/8/2008 7:20 PM

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Actually, he was caught in the past and he does have a record. The police stop him and found MJ in his car. Im not sure how long ago but I think 4 years ago. Would that help me at all and would that still be in his record?

by cookster 5 Posts
Posted on 8/8/2008 7:19 PM

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if he has never been arrested for it - you have no proof unless he stupidly admits it in depostion - SOOOOOOO, it will be she said he said, meaning he will say he isn't a drug user and you will say he is - and if he has no record (criminal) that would back up your allegation - it won't get admitted in court - nor will be be forced to do drug testing.

by spaznskitz 3896 Posts
Posted on 8/8/2008 5:11 PM

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