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Unconditional love do it exist

Unconditional love do it exist, or is it just some fairy tale bs?I just do not know the answer to that question any more I though I did at one point in my life.It saddens me that I don't know any more.In my relationship with my wife I felt like I gave it,but never received it.I have to believe for my hearts sake that it does I just don't know.Please tell me what you all think about this. I just though love could tame the monsters with in.

by lilc   36 Posts 
Posted on 8/5/2008 3:09 PM
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I think it does, if you want it bad enough.  You need to find that person who has the same moral values as you!!  Good luck in your search
by dyben   536 Posts
Posted on 8/7/2008 4:35 AM
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Yep even guys dream of this lades! But I don't think its real anymore myself. I have been hurt so much that I don't think that I can let me self find it again! How do you trust again after all we have gone through? I would love to find that someone to hold and to love, but does it exist? I'm not sure, I can read a woman's mind!
by Gorf   162 Posts
Posted on 8/6/2008 8:26 AM
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i too thought that uncondtional love was somthing that would keep you together for all time , i had a dream when i was a child , who , where and when i would marry , and it came true , i thought that this meant that it was forever , and in my heart it still is , i would have gladly given my own life for my soon to be ex wife .i told her a hundred times that i would forgive her for her afair , but she wont talk to me at all . i think that she is afraid to , that i will talk her into staying with me . 

my children have stood beside me , and they all say that i havent done anything wrong . i have tried to be the perfect husband , never complain , never think of my self , tell her and show her i love her every day . but it is not enough for her .  and i am going to loose the one and only true love of my life . i dont know if i can truly trust another woman ever again . how do i try to love after that ????????

real sad in mass .
by conehead   7 Posts
Posted on 8/5/2008 6:31 PM
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Yes, even if it is one sided it is unconditional. Yes it still exists and yes we seem to be the only assholes who observe it and offer it up.  Did you ever think you would feel this much when you married your spouse?  Of course you didnt think you would end up divorced. Nonee of us do when we marry but the full force of the emotional range....did you think this was something ever felt? I didnt.  I am actually shocked at the emotions I am feeling.  I know the happy and sad and bored and irritated but the rest of them that we dont see ecery day and a few I never kew existed. And yet for all the pain, confusion and tears I still love the dick head but I do know he is not the same man I married and I will never look at him with respect or want again. Although I dont want him to suffer any, I do want him to get as he gave. Just so he knows.
by Branny   743 Posts
Posted on 8/5/2008 6:20 PM
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I thought it did also.  The love that I still have for my ex. say's that it does.  But if right now it is only one sided, is it unconditional?  I really do not know lilc.  At one time I would have given up my life to save my wife.  With no questions asked.  The longer that our divorce goes,  the more that I have to question if I would now !!!
by rickth   32 Posts
Posted on 8/5/2008 5:09 PM
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