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Who is this women and where is my wife????

Who is this women,what happened to my wife my great love,the mother of my children?Sure we had are ups and downs what married couple doesn't.For the most part it was great we were deeply in love something i thought was forever.Now I know nothing is forever.I have so many thought trying to come out at once I can't even say what I am thinking!
by lilc    36 Posts   
Posted on 8/3/2008 11:45 PM    
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Right here with the rest of you. My 20 year wife who acted as if adultery was akin to murder - well during a bad period for us took a boyfriend.

I refused warning signals like an idiot would ignore a traffic signal but I trusted her and now don't have ANY clue who or what she is.

We need to sit down and start discussing the divvy without lawyers and the kids care and well being and I dread that like a tooth pulling. Here is somebody I slept with for 20 years and now I don't even know her.

OMG!
by WonderWhy   70 Posts
Posted on 8/16/2008 9:02 PM
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I thought I was special.  I thought WE were special. I thought she could NEVER cheat on me. I thought she was different from anyone else. Well guess what...  she isn't and I'm not any different than other people on this planet. People will surprise you in what they are capable of doing including breaking trust that seems so solid in your relationship. If he or she says they are not in love with you, they are cheating. I know, I know, your situation is "different" but I will be blunt and say it isn't.  It took me 7 months to accept the fact that she is a liar, a cheater and someone I don't know or even care to understand anymore. Believe me, it's really hard to accept, but it is what it is. The worst part is discovery... hang in there.
by Desmo   70 Posts
Posted on 8/12/2008 1:34 PM
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