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DOES IT GET ANY BETTER?????

Does it get any better?I hope to hell it does.Each and ever day that goes bye it just seems to get worse and worse.No light at the end of the tunnel,no end in sight.I look for closure and she opens up new wounds that get deeper and deeper.Every day that passes a new and extraordinary problem arises.Just when I think i got a handle on things she pulls the rug out from under me.One day she is hell bent on divorce the next she is sorry and still loves me.I can not handle that, just when I think i am on the right path to recovering from this hell somewhat she messes with my head!this crap would be so much easier it I didn't have kids with this she devil.I could just tell her to go to hell and try to be done with it!DOES IT GET ANY BETTER???????
by lilc   36 Posts 
Posted on 8/2/2008 10:30 PM
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You have what is called a "crazy maker" on your hands and the only thing you can do is change how you react  in order to survive it.  They are like bipolar ups and downs and you feel like you're on an emotional rollercoaster.  It is so hard to deal with.  If you can get counseling for yourself so you can talk to someone who understands and can help you be rational during this emotional turmoil, it will be wonderful, or find a friend who can let you vent and be there for you.  It takes time but you can stop yourself from reacting negatively and just let it roll off you.  You have to be very strong however!!
by baal   82 Posts
Posted on 8/7/2008 4:46 PM
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Yes it does get better!  Just hang in there!
by SKelly   189 Posts
Posted on 8/3/2008 11:05 PM
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Believe me sometime it get hard but a am just starting on my divorce.He was serve his papers on yesterday.Eventhough it has been only about a mouth i am starteing to feel better already probably becaue we talk about it.Everyone tell me it will really get ugly when he goes before the judge that when he will start to hate me, he say he will still be there when i need him.All i can say is it will get better just keep the faith and keep your head up.......
by sugbear   9 Posts
Posted on 8/3/2008 9:29 AM
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Yes it does get better. With someone like her PLEASE make sure you don't sign anything "just to get it over". You will pay in the end and so  will your kids.
Make sure you are covered in all legal aspects. It is hard to change things once it is signed.
I am sorry. I was with someone who was mentally unstable also. Take care of yourself and your kids!
by mtnvly   2302 Posts
Posted on 8/3/2008 7:30 AM
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I'm going through the same thing right now, and I know what you are saying and feeling. I've looked back and its only been almost 2 mos. since the divorce has started, and yes it has got better. But I am also going to be moving about 150 miles away and have been gone for about a week. While I was gone he went back and forth with being understanding and down right hateful. I just tend to go about my own business and put him out of mind and it goes better. Don't try to figure them out, it will drive you crazy. Look forward and don't think about the other things. Do what is right for you. Best of luck
by bleedinglovepain   515 Posts
Posted on 8/2/2008 10:47 PM
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