I need to know if I was in the wrong. My husband has been having an "emotional affair" (he says no sex, but who really knows) with a woman who is also married. I have known about it for almost three months now, although they have known each other for 9 months. The womans husband works at the same place as my husband. I did not want to tell the other womans husband that my husband worked at the same place, however, I did stay in contact with him to give him information about what my husband was up to and to see if it corroborated with what his wife was doing (it always did). My husband promised to end his relationship three times with this woman, but instead continued to lie to my face and see her behind my back, went and bought a cell phone I didn't know about so they could stay in contact, went out of town with her, etc. Lies, lies, lies all the time. Long story short, I finally had enough. I called the other woman's husband and told him that my husband worked at the same place he did. I was tired of feeling like my husband and his girlfriend were getting away with murder while I spent sleepless nights wondering where he was. Of course, the woman's husband went to confront my husband at work, but did not get the result he wanted. Later that same day, the other womans husband found my husband and gave him two black eyes (not very serious ones, but bruised none the less). My husband now blames me letting his girlfriends husband know where he works. I think, hey, I gave you almost three months to end this thing before you finally drove me to it. However, I am starting to feel guilty and feel that now I have ruined any chance we may have had to fix our marriage. Any advice would be appreciated.