Here it is,  I have been gone to Texas for almost 2 mnths. I stoped calling my ex. She started calling me out of the blue.  Her finances are not in the best shape right now.  You guessed it (money) is what she wanted.  Yes I gave it to her.  After all the divorce problems, I thought she was really willing to try to work things out.  Even though she is the one that initiated this divorce.  Anyway I end up back in California,  we spent 5 days just doing things together.  She is talking to guys on the phone and my space.  She agreed that she was going to give me the same chance as anybody else, that she is talking to.  The place I was staying at did not work out, so I moved back home.  With the assumption that I would have a chance to win back my wife's love.  You guessed it more money got thrown to her.  Now she tells me that she will not give me any chance at dating or anything.  When I tell her that I will be leaving soon, and since she can not love me anymore, that I will not be supporting her.  That is when she finally shows emotion to me, like I kicked her in the head.  This is the part that I need advice on.  She obviously can't make it on her own.  She has dated other guys.  I feel like I am only around to help her out of problems.  I paid her cell phone and internet.  What she uses to talk to other guys.  In fact she is either on phone or internet all day long.  Talks to a guy on cell phone for about 3 hours a night.  I pay the bill and someone else gets the benefit. I need answers as to what to do!!  I will let her read your answers, so beware of that in your answers.  I will write more tomorrow.  I really nedd advice on this matter