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responsable father on childsupport after 17 years of giving

alway give lots of my time and money to my dougther as much as I can with love no worries and now her mother put me in child support,why possib le she has 2 more girls from someone eslse,what can I do if I never keep enoght prove most of the time was cash,paing on the stores,but to keep everithing never think on that after 17 years so what can I do

by goodone   1 Post 
Posted on 12/2/2007 2:43 PM
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In addition to Lori's post keep a journal of all you do for your daughter along with receipts from the stores. It's not perfect but it will help some.
by mommaofbug   23 Posts
Posted on 12/3/2007 10:42 PM
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If you have no proof of the money you've given, its going to be tough to prove that you paid anything. Was a court order done on the child support? If not, something needs to be legal and in writing. Bottom line is, they wont take more money than you can afford to give. Fill out the paperwork honestly and they will make their judgement on your expenses and her's. Im not sure how long you have not been together or why she would wait until the child is 17 to ask for support but it might end up being in your favor. If the other 2 children dont belong to you, you wont be asked to support them.
by Lori-Woodall   923 Posts
Posted on 12/3/2007 1:16 PM
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