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help the cowardly lion

The other woman who is in fact now the new woman finally flew in from Rockford to here (Maui) to be with T,.... of course were no longer livin together, but he seems to call me more now?  if he didnt id probably have that abandonment feeling.  but now that he is i almost feel like the other woman...?  THAT IS THE LAST THING I WANT TO BE CLASSED AS.  ...i have that damned if he does & damned if he doesnt complex.  in my heart i kno the answers are simple, but ima cowardly lion & its easier to have courage hearing how yall dealt with it,.... any takers??? Please i need sugg. on wat to do or say to him...

by BUGABOO   10 Posts 
Posted on 7/27/2008 7:10 AM
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He is doing that thang we call her in MD, having his cake and eating it too, but Departed said this to her STBX, you can have your cake and eat it too because I'm going to be the one that shoves the fork down your throat.  Who knows why they do what they do.  Before I came to this site I thought that I was the only one out there that this was happening too but now it is happening a lot and as well as to men.  I had a bad taste for men until 360 and now I know that one day I might be lucky for that white horse to show up.  His actions almost sound as if "HE MADE A MISTAKE" he got her her and now what.  The thrill of the chase is over and now you are moving forward with your life..  Keep being strong and unless you want to hear anything he has to say go tell him to enjoy his new fly-in friend.  Keep that head up
by Departed   571 Posts
Posted on 9/22/2008 5:06 PM
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Maybe he is feeling guilty about moving on and you are still there?  I don't know, but perhaps he wants both of you, but that will never work. Is he calling you about things that are important or just to see what you are doing?
by deborah-trevino   1099 Posts
Posted on 9/22/2008 4:40 PM
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