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My husband physically abused me 2 months ago I left and havent been back. I have filed for a divorce since then. He had the nerves to move his girl friend in the week after the incident happened. I had no idea he had someone else. Now im living with my daughter in the same complex he's living in. Every day I see her driving the car that he bought for me. He also work at the same complex. I am so furious with him but I have to keep my head on straight. But this is the hardest thing i've dealt with all my life.

by bryant 10 Posts
Posted on 7/26/2008 9:17 PM

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something very simiar happened in my life. to heal u would need to move, find a new job, and not constantly be reminded of what he did, seeing the homewrecker only causes more hurt. he abused u because he didn't love u anymore, and wanted this other woman.only one way to get past it, move away, find a new job, as long as u have to see them u won't heal.he is not sensitive to your pain, because he isn't the one hurting.

by pattyk 8 Posts
Posted on 8/23/2008 3:45 PM

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u have a lat of nerve to live on the same place, the best thing is distance i think, please don't let u baby to see you mad abut her, you are better and you don't need that car. i know you get mad but you can get a better one, we girls have something they don't have the "kids" for them we do much better.

by diadesol 13 Posts
Posted on 7/26/2008 10:00 PM

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Nikki's right. Get counseling, see a doctor, and get out of that complex. Just put some distance between you and him, and let your lawyer deal with pushing the divorce along.

by 2much42long 949 Posts
Posted on 7/26/2008 9:55 PM

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You might want to seek out counseling or therapy to deal with everything going on. Seems like you are having residual stress and anxiety due to his actions, and being in the same complex with him must be strenuous. Find someone to talk to about it. Him not signing those papers is a matter of control. Talk to your lawyer about how to handle this, considering the abusive history. Good luck to you!

by Nicki4 61 Posts
Posted on 7/26/2008 9:42 PM

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I know. He was served with divorce papers. He let me know that he's not signing them. I can't understand why not. I have been through so much since then. I know im doing the right thing. I just can't understand why im having so many problems with sleeping and eating. I wake up all times of the night crying. Last night i dreamed he jumped on me. I woke up my chest was paining so bad. I think i need to see a doctor. That's something I did'nt want to do.

by bryant 10 Posts
Posted on 7/26/2008 9:39 PM

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I agree with 2much42long, it's good you are going. I know the rage that may well up inside of you sometimes may want to surface. But considering how much of a jerk he seems to be, look at the girlfriend driving that car and remind yourself better her than you. You don't need that kind of drama in your life, let her deal with him. Keep your head up, you have every right to a happy and healthy relationship!!

by Nicki4 61 Posts
Posted on 7/26/2008 9:39 PM

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WOW I am sorry you are having to go through that....and yes i agree...no class at all...do yourself a favor and get moving out of there!

by SKelly 189 Posts
Posted on 7/26/2008 9:35 PM

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Wow, he's got no class at all, does he. Get rid of him. You might want to find another apartment complex to live in, too. You don't need that hassle.

by 2much42long 949 Posts
Posted on 7/26/2008 9:28 PM

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